I posted something like this on my previous blogs already so please skip if you don't want to read this again & if you don't want a long rant...


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WLE! WHAT IS WITH YOU PEOPLE!?

This is the 56815434th time you accuse me of the same thing! If you want to accuse me of that, please do it exactly one year ago. NOT NOW!


Damn stupid really.

I got really pissed because apparently, somebody told me I have a boyfriend. And you still tell me I'm denying it. If I have a boyfriend now, why should I deny? Please get your facts right.


How can I have a boyfriend if I don't know anything about him? Rubbish.

And is it so wrong for me to not have a boyfriend? To not have a guy to call on?
Oh please...
I grew up a long time ago & the fact is... I can do without a boyfriend for the time-being.
Do not assume I'm lesbian just because I don't have a boyfriend.
Just because I'm single, it does not make me any different from you. I'm human too.


And FYI, after what this heart's suffered, I think it's best if I took a break from dating.



Sure, I would love being pampered by a boy & being loved. I do want that but, if that's the only reason why I want or need a boyfriend then it is so wrong. I wouldn't want to just throw myself at any guy who is willing to pamper & love me. Then, I'll be using him & that's not fair to the other party.



If I wanted to be in a relationship, I would first take into account the chemistry that we both share & think about the guy. I'll take into account, all his good points & his flaws.


If I were to just stupidly jump into a relationship without first knowing my guy, then there is a very high probability that I may end up with another broken heart. Even if I knew him well, I might still end up hurt.


Look at Rihanna & Chris Brown.



I mean, I may end up like Rihanna if I just pick some guy who seems to have good affinity with me. I might end up like her if I didn't know the guy better & worse, the guy may take advantage of what I have.


This is reality.
I have to be careful because no matter how nice the guy is, I might end up very hurt.



And well, to those girls who say...
If I end up like Rihanna, I'll leave my guy straight away.

It's not that easy to let go of what we have. It's never easy.
We're scared of him hurting us but, we're even more scared to be left alone.


Which is why, we have to learn to carefully pick our guys.


A guy who loves us, will never harm us in any way. He may hurt us by accident but never intentionally....